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The Best Gift You Can Give Your Pastor This Pastor Appreciation Month
September 26, 2025

The best gift you can give your pastor is prayer.

October Is Pastor Appreciation Month — But What If We’ve Been Giving the Wrong Gift?

Every October, churches across the country pause to honor their pastors. Some give cards. Others give gift baskets, restaurant vouchers, or a round of applause from the pulpit.


These gestures matter. They encourage. They say, “We see you.”


But this year, I want to challenge you to give something even greater, something that won’t be spent, used up, or tossed aside.


The best gift you can give your pastor is prayer.



The Reality: Pastoral Burnout Is on the Rise


It’s no secret that Christian leadership is hard. But recent statistics paint a sobering picture:


  • Nearly half of pastors have seriously considered quitting full-time ministry in the past year.

  • Burnout is now one of the top reasons pastors leave their calling.

  • Many pastors have never had a true sabbatical or extended period of rest.

  • Emotional exhaustion, isolation, and the weight of constant leadership decisions have pushed many to the edge.

Your pastor might be one of them, and you might never know it.



Why Prayer Matters More Than Applause


Applause is wonderful in the moment, but it fades quickly.

Prayer, however, goes deeper.


When you pray for your pastor, you’re:


  • Asking God to strengthen them spiritually.

  • Covering them in wisdom for tough decisions.

  • Interceding for their family and their rest.

  • Standing in the gap against spiritual attack.

As Paul wrote in 2 Corinthians 1:11, “You also must help us by prayer, so that many will give thanks on our behalf for the blessing granted us through the prayers of many.”


Prayer is the one gift that multiplies in power, and God will use it.


Step One: Recognize Your Pastor’s Biggest Prayer Need


Generic prayers are good, but targeted, biblical prayers are even better. That’s why we created the Recognize Your Pastor’s Biggest Prayer Need Quiz.


In just a few minutes, you’ll:


  • Discover the most pressing need your pastor may be facing right now.

  • Learn how to pray for that need with Scripture as your guide.

  • Get equipped to intercede with clarity and purpose.

This quiz is the first step in joining our 28-Day October Prayer Challenge,  a month of covering your pastor with intentional, life-giving prayer.


Take the Quiz Here



Step Two: Put Your Prayers into Action with the Prayer Pledge Drive Journal


Once you know your pastor’s greatest prayer need, you’ll want to keep the momentum going.
That’s where the
Prayer Pledge Drive Journal comes in.


Inside you’ll find:


  • 31 days of guided Scripture-based prayers tailored to the needs of ministry leaders.

  • Space to record answered prayers and encouragement notes.

  • Practical ideas for showing your pastor love beyond words.

  • A simple layout that keeps you consistent without overwhelming your schedule.

This journal isn’t just a tool… it’s a framework for blessing your pastor all month long.
By the end of October, you’ll have prayed over every major area of their life and ministry.


Get the Prayer Pledge Drive Journal



Stories That Prove It Works


A church member in Iowa committed to praying daily for her pastor using this journal. She later shared:


“By week three, I started noticing changes… not just in him, but in me. Our conversations were deeper. He said he felt renewed energy for ministry. I realized God was working in both of us.”


In another church, a group of members took the challenge together. They reported fewer conflicts in leadership meetings, greater unity in worship, and a renewed vision for outreach.


This is what happens when a church prays for its pastor…God moves.



Step Three: Join the 28-Day October Prayer Challenge


Here’s how to make this Pastor Appreciation Month unforgettable:


  1. Take the Quiz → Find out your pastor’s biggest prayer need.

  2. Get the Journal → Follow the 31-day plan to pray with power.

  3. Invite Others → Encourage your small group, Sunday school, or friends to join in.

Imagine your pastor walking into November refreshed, encouraged, and strengthened, not because of applause, but because a community stood in the gap for them.



Don’t Wait. Start Today!


Pastoral burnout doesn’t wait.
Every day without prayer is a missed opportunity to lift your pastor’s load.


💡 Take the quiz right now and then grab your Prayer Pledge Drive Journal and commit to the 28-Day October Prayer Challenge. Let’s make this Pastor Appreciation Month the one that changes everything.


Take the Quiz


Get the Prayer Pledge Drive Journal

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